街坊：为什么这么多的菲律宾女人嫁给外国男人？
Why Do So Many Filipina Women Marry Foreigners? | Street Interview
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金钱高于一切。
顺便说一句，她们都是了不起的女人，通常都很照顾家人。西方男性可能更喜欢她们，因为她们不像本国女性那样清醒，可以很好地照顾家庭。菲律宾人通常以家庭为导向，希望有很多孩子。
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Wonderwon123
Money is above anything else.
金钱高于一切。
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I'm a Filipina who married a Japanese guy yet I don't have any financial problems in my family. I'm one of those Filipinos who live in nice subdivisions. Thing is, when I was single, I had bad experiences with dating Filipino men. They didn't take me seriously as I wanted a date to marry route. They just cheated on me or blatantly have no long term plans. I changed the dating field and unexpectedly ended up with a Japanese man just 6yrs older than me.
我是一个菲律宾人，嫁给了一个日本人，但我的家庭没有任何经济问题。我是那些住在高档小区的菲律宾人之一。问题是，当我单身的时候，我有过和菲律宾男人约会的糟糕经历。他们并没有把我当回事，因为我想要一个以结婚为目的的人恋爱。他们只是欺骗了我，或者很显然没有长远计划。我改变了约会路径，意外地找到了一个比我大6岁的日本男人。
I'm a Filipina who married a Japanese guy yet I don't have any financial problems in my family. I'm one of those Filipinos who live in nice subdivisions. Thing is, when I was single, I had bad experiences with dating Filipino men. They didn't take me seriously as I wanted a date to marry route. They just cheated on me or blatantly have no long term plans. I changed the dating field and unexpectedly ended up with a Japanese man just 6yrs older than me.
我是一个菲律宾人，嫁给了一个日本人，但我的家庭没有任何经济问题。我是那些住在高档小区的菲律宾人之一。问题是，当我单身的时候，我有过和菲律宾男人约会的糟糕经历。他们并没有把我当回事，因为我想要一个以结婚为目的的人恋爱。他们只是欺骗了我，或者很显然没有长远计划。我改变了约会路径，意外地找到了一个比我大6岁的日本男人。
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Asian Boss always, always, focus on asking the low income sector or poorer sector, like almost in every video they feature about the Philippines. Instead of addressing the stereotypes about Filipinos and Filipino women.
Well, they interviewed low-income people, it’s common sense that the answers would be for “money,” but if they interviewed at least upper middle to well-off ones, they’d get different answers.
Asian Boss总是这样，总是专注于采访低收入的人，就像他们在每一个关于菲律宾的视频中所展示的那样。而不是改变外人对菲律宾人和菲律宾妇女的刻板印象。
嗯，他们采访了低收入人群，答案肯定为了“钱”，这是常识。但如果他们至少采访了中上阶层到富裕阶层，他们会得到不同的答案
Chinese men are marrying a lot of foreigners too because there are now more men in China then women. A lot of Chinese men are marrying Filipino, Laos and Vietnamese women.
中国男人也有很多娶了外国人，因为现在中国男人比女人多。很多中国男人都娶了菲律宾、老挝和越南的女人。
Why not other east asians?
为什么不是其他的东亚人？
Other east asian women are not marrying or dating. Japan, China, Korea's birth rate is very low right now.
其他东亚女性不想结婚或约会。目前日本、中国和韩国的出生率都很低。
Please don't have too many expectations about Korean people; they may not fulfill your fantasies.
请不要对韩国人抱有太多期望；他们可能无法实现你的幻想。
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I agree, knowing that some of them are abusive...
我同意，因为我知道他们中的一些人很虐待。。。
Fr, even after the news or the viral videos of Koreans showing racism towards us and other Southeast Asians.
呃，有很多韩国人对我们和其他东南亚人表现出种族主义的新闻和走红视频
better than marrying westerner, thats for sure
当然，这比嫁给西方人要好
Personally, I'm mixed ethnicity American myself, I've also raised my son on my own, & have never needed anyone's help, but I have no problem with Americans or other Westerners marrying foreign born people, like that one guy said in the video, the mixing of peoples is a beautiful thing.
就我个人而言，我自己也是混血美国人，我也独自抚养过我的儿子，从不需要任何人的帮助，但我对美国人或其他西方人与外国人结婚的事情没有异议。就像一个人在视频中所说的那样，人与人之间的融合是一件美好的事情。
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I can sense the passport bros from a distance.
得到通行证。兄弟，我大老远都听到算盘了
In Japan, we say “You don’t marry a Filipina, you end up marrying their family”.
在日本，我们说“你不只是嫁/娶菲律宾人，而是嫁/娶他们的家人”。
Im not Japanese but based on experience, you indeed marry their family
我不是日本人，但根据经验，你确实嫁给了他们一大家子
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Exactly. You have to financially take care of their family. That's their problem.
确实，你必须在经济上照顾他们的家庭。这是他们的问题。
Well, here in Canada I've met incredible Filipina women, and most of them are very independent, hard working, and won't expect you to give a single penny for her or her family. My girlfriend herself is a Filipina and all that she requires from me is loyalty and lots of attention and love, which I'll gladly give.
好吧，在加拿大，我遇到了令人难以置信的菲律宾女性，她们中的大多数都非常独立，努力工作，不会指望你为她或她的家人付出一分钱。我的女朋友本身就是菲律宾人，她对我的要求就是忠诚、关注和爱，我很乐意付出。
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"So why do you want to marry a foreigner?"
Them: "Money"
“所以你们为什么想嫁给一个外国人？”
她们：“因为钱”
as one of the women said in the videos, it's a negative stereotype about Filipinas.
正如其中一名女性在视频中所说，这是对菲律宾人的负面刻板印象。
It’s true. Not all Filipinos are attracted to foreigners. There are also rich/middle class/poor Filipinos who work hard and don’t need foreigners to live. This was filmed in a poor area, so of course you’d judge them LOL. Let them go to Makati, answer would be 100% different.
这是真的。并不是所有的菲律宾人都被外国人所吸引。有的菲律宾人（不论是否富有），他们工作努力，不需要外国人来生活。这是在一个贫困地区拍摄的采访，所以你们当然会评判他们（笑）。让他们去BGC或马卡堤，答案会百分百不同。
money , better life
因为钱，因为更好的生活
Having been in Filipino culture…this is true. Especially if the guy is a white man..I could go further but ima leave it at that.
体验过菲律宾文化…这是真的。尤其是如果这个人是白人的话……我可以说得更多，但就止步于此吧。
keep going.
继续
I’m dating someone from the US but I could assure you that I’m more well-off. (He’s American-Chinese, I’m Filipino-Chinese and we’re of the same age) I live in the Philippines, he lives in the US. Am I in for the green card? No.
We also met when I was traveling to the US. Not all Filipinos are the same.
我正在和一个美国人约会，但我可以向你保证，我更有钱。（他是美籍华人，我是菲律宾华人，我们同龄）我住在菲律宾，他住在美国。我会获得绿卡吗？不
我们也是在我去美国旅行时认识的。并不是所有的菲律宾人都是一样（贪财）的。
Sad reality of how the world works... Money buys all
世界运转的悲惨现实……钱能买到一切
even human rights
甚至人权
I'm curious about how many of the 15,000 foreigners who have married Filipinas did so with the intention of purchasing properties in the Philippines or starting a business there. It's difficult to determine the exact number or conduct a survey on this, but it's definitely a possibility. I doubt that most of these men are extremely wealthy or well-off in their own countries. Perhaps marrying a Filipina is a way for them to have a more comfortable retirement, establish a business, or invest in properties that would be challenging to do in their home country. It would be interesting if the channel could also showcase these foreign nationals and their reasons for marrying Filipinas in a future video.
我很好奇，在15000名与菲律宾人结婚的外国人中，有多少人是为了在菲律宾购买房产或在那里创业。很难确定确切的数字或对此进行调查，但这绝对是有可能的。我怀疑这些人中的大多数在自己的国家是否非常富有或富裕。也许嫁给菲律宾人能让他们拥有更舒适的退休生活，或者进行在本国很有挑战性的创业投资。如果该频道也能在未来的视频中展示这些外国公民的生活及其与菲律宾人结婚的原因，那将是一件有趣的事情。
Foreigners can't buy property in the Philippines without marrying a Philippine citizen?
外国人不嫁给菲律宾公民就不能在菲律宾买房？
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Great conversation! Thank you!
很棒的采访！谢谢！
South east asian patriarchy is different and difficult then western patriarchy. Serving husband and children is easier then obeying and serving husband and his parents and siblings. Western cooking and cleaning is comparatively easier than eastern world. So even rich girls try to escape patriarchy.
东南亚父权制与西方父权制是不同的，也是困难的。为丈夫和孩子服务比为一大家子服务容易一些。西方的烹饪清洁标准比东方的要相对低一些。因此，即使是富有的女孩也试图逃离父权制。
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Are you even South east asian? Where tf did you hear about south east asian patriarchy.
你是东南亚人吗？你从哪里听说东南亚父权制的。
Ain’t that the TRUTH.
这不是事实吗。
blah, thats cope. asian women who marry out esp to westerner always say patriarchy this patriarchy that. shame! patriarchy is not a problem.
等等，那就能对上了。嫁给西方人的亚洲女人总是说父权这个父权那个。羞耻！父权制不是问题。
You just want to have your cake and eat it too.
Lazy and spoiled.
Edit: grow up!
你只想拥有你的蛋糕并吃掉它。
懒惰，且被宠坏了。
编辑：请长大！
By that logic, then where are all the Middle Eastern woman marrying foreigner? No patriarchy in Middle East countries?
按照这个逻辑，那么那些嫁给外国人的中东女人在哪里呢？中东国家没有父权制？
Patriarchy? The Philippines is not Malaysia or Indonesia or Myanmar. Southeast Asians do not share the same culture. We're #16 of the world's most gender-equal countries, and the most gender-equal country in the entirety of Asia in the 2023 Global Gender Gap Index. What are you even talking about?
父权制？菲律宾不是马来西亚、印度尼西亚或缅甸。东南亚人的文化并不相同。在2023年全球性别差距指数中，我们是世界上性别平等程度最高的国家之一，也是整个亚洲性别平等程度最高的国家。你在说什么？
Girls, be smart! Date and marry the person who treats you best AND can provide for you! Don't marry just for "love" or for looks. You will regret it!
If a foreigner treats you best go for it. It doesn't matter what people around you say.
Don't wait until you marry someone who treats you badly then leaves you and your kids before you date the right person. Make the right decision from the beginning!
女孩们，聪明点！去约会并嫁给一个对你最好、能养得起你的人！不要仅仅为了“爱情”或长相而结婚。你会后悔的！
如果一个外国人对你最好，那就去做吧。你周围的人怎么说都无关紧要。
不要等到你嫁给了一个对你不好的人，然后离开了你和你的孩子，才和合适的人约会。从一开始就做出正确的决定！
aside from that more and more Filipinas are choosing to stay in the Philippines due to the current situation in the West. They are in a downfall, while generally the Asian nations are booming. It does not make sense.
除此之外，由于西方目前的局势，越来越多的菲律宾人选择留在菲律宾。西方正在衰落，而亚洲国家总体上正在蓬勃发展。这（指菲律宾女人嫁给外国人）没有道理。
money,if the foreigner has no money,then no relationship
钱，如果外国人没有钱，那么菲律宾女人也就不会和他们确定关系
So this was told to me by my friend, a lady from Philippines. Firstly a lot of middle class parents tell their kids to become nurses because it's very easy to get a job in western countries due to high demand, so, escape your own country. Secondly, once one person is dating and married to a foreigner she will do her utmost to get the girls in the family to be introduced to foreigner men in her husbands circles so that they can also escape Philippines. Apparently it's harder being a woman in Philippines.
BTW they are great women and generally look after their families a lot. Western men probably prefer them because they are not as woke as women in their country and can look after a family well. Philippinos usually are family orientated and want to have lots of kids.
I completely understand that not everyone is the same and I am. Only talking from my own experience.
这是我的朋友，一位来自菲律宾的女士告诉我的。首先，许多中产阶级父母告诉他们的孩子成为护士。因为在西方国家人们对护士的需求量大，很容易找到工作，进而她们可以逃离自己的国家。其次，一旦一个人与外国人约会并结婚，她会尽最大努力让家里的女孩被介绍给她丈夫圈子里的其他外国男人，这样他们也可以逃离菲律宾。显然，在菲律宾做女人好难。
顺便说一句，她们都是了不起的女人，通常都很照顾家人。西方男性可能更喜欢她们，因为她们不像本国女性那样清醒，可以很好地照顾家庭。菲律宾人通常以家庭为导向，希望有很多孩子。
我完全理解不是每个人都是一模一样的，我也是。这些只是从我自己的经历来说的。
Why? Because 1 month salary in rich nations is probably their annual salary
为什么？因为在富裕国家一个月的工资可能就是他们的年薪
in America many young Filipino girls marry elderly white men.
在美国，许多年轻的菲律宾女孩嫁给了老白男。