Hi everyone. So, I am Ukrainian but my boyfriend is Chinese. We've met and started dating when he was studying here and have been in a long-distance relationship after he graduated and moved back to China. Ukraine is not very safe right now and does not have good job prospects for electronics engineers, so he moved, and I had stayed in my home country because I needed to finish my residency in psychiatry. We are serious, so we did not break up. Now, we had planned to both move to the UK in 2025 after getting some experience in our respective fields, but now my bf is having second thoughts and wants me to move to China. His mother is sick, and he wants to stay in China for at least a couple more years to be with her. I completely understand that, but what are my prospects career-wise? Are there any hospitals for foreigners in China where I would be able to get a license to work? I don't know any Chinese but am fluent in English. Please advise.

大家好。嗯,我是乌克兰人,但我的男朋友是中国人。我们在他在这里学习时认识并开始约会,在他毕业并搬回中国后,我们一直保持着异地恋。乌克兰现在不太安全,电子工程师的就业前景也不好,所以他搬走了,而我留在我的祖国,因为我需要完成精神病学的住院医生培训。我们很认真,所以我们没有分手。现在,我们计划在2025年在各自领域积累经验后一起搬到英国,但现在我的男朋友改变了主意,并希望我搬到中国。他的母亲生病了,他想在中国陪她至少再待几年。我完全理解这一点,但我的职业前景如何?在中国有没有专门为外国人提供执业许可的医院?我不懂中文,但英语流利。请指教。
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upxe: We just had a huge fight, where he implied I might have another man. I have never been so disrespected in any of my relationships. We have been dating for two years and are both strictly monogamous people. We survived war and long-distance together, but it seems that all this time, he did not trust me. I still love him to pieces, but I also respect myself and cannot be with someone who does not trust me. I do not know how to recover from this. All he gives me are weak excuses like "it's not you, it's me". I really thought we had it, and this was the relationship to end all relationships. For life. Guess not. Thank you, everyone, for your advice and support! I am thinking of ending things with him.

更新:我们刚刚发生了一场激烈的争吵,他暗示我可能有其他男人。我从来没有在任何一段感情中受到过如此不尊重。我们已经交往两年,我们都是严格的一夫一妻制者。我们一起经历了战争和异地恋,但似乎一直以来,他并不信任我。我仍然深爱着他,但我也尊重自己,不能和一个不信任我的人在一起。我不知道如何从这种情况中恢复。他只给我一些脆弱的借口,比如“不是你的问题,是我的问题”。我真的以为我们能走到最后,这将是一段终身的感情。看来不是。谢谢大家的建议和支持!我正在考虑和他分手。