网友讨论：印度童婚 （2021年）
What are some things that make you sad?
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今天我和妈妈一起去市场上买手镯。当我走进手镯店时，我很震惊，一个大约10-12岁的女孩和她的婆婆在一起。
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What are some things that make you sad?
有什么让你感到悲伤的事情吗？
有什么让你感到悲伤的事情吗？
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今天我和妈妈一起去市场上买手镯。当我走进手镯店时，我感到很震惊，一个大约10-12岁的女孩正和她的婆婆在一起。
她尝试着不同尺寸的手镯，想找到适合自己手腕大小的手镯。她的婆婆要求店主至少送5套不同颜色的手镯过来，因为她刚结婚，每隔一天就要换一套。
译注：楼主发的图片来自电影
I whispered in my mother's ear that this is so wrong and can't we just do something about it. My mother gave me angry glare and I didn't do anything but it made my heart cry.
我在妈妈耳边低声说：“这是非常严重的错误，我们不能做点什么吗？”
妈妈生气地瞪了我一眼，我什么也没做，但我的心灵在哭泣。
You could have given a police complaint. Poor child. Can't believe in today's world such parents exist who marry off their daughter at this age.
你本可以向警方投诉的。可怜的孩子。真不敢相信在当今世界上，还有这样的父母，在这个年纪就把女儿嫁出去了。
I could have but for how many girls will I complain. There is a certain type of community in Gurgaon who are very rich and it is common in their culture to get married before 18. Even if I had complained, nothing would have made a difference because honestly money can buy any law and order these days.
我的确可以这么做，可我又能为多少女孩发起投诉。古尔冈市是一个非常富有的社区，在他们的文化中，18岁之前结婚是很常见的。
即使我投诉了，也不会有什么不同，因为老实说，当今世界，金钱可以买到任何法律和秩序。
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Dark side of our millennium city.
我们这座千年之城的黑暗面。
Don’t get me wrong…whatever the situation might be after you have complained to police…but you should have given a shot.
别误会我的意思……不管你向警方投诉后的情况如何……但你至少应该打响这一枪。
Ya give a shot and get a shot in head next day.. some community/people are dangerous.
你打响这一枪，第二天，你就会挨一枪……有些社区/人很危险。
I agree
我同意。
For all girls
为了那些女孩。
Would you do that?
你会那样做吗？
girl you couldve save da life of at least one girl,what kind of pathetic argument is ‘for how many girls I will do police complaints’ youre just a coward,a girls life is ruined and you watched and did nothing,hope you are happy
你至少可以救下一个女孩的命，“我可以为多少女孩对警察进行投诉？”，这是什么可悲的言论？？你只是个懦夫，那个女孩的生活被毁了，你就这样看着，什么都没有做，希望你还能快乐。
That's why I didn't give it upvote… we can use twitter handle, fb and so many social media platforms to complain if we can't go physically and complain.
这就是为什么我没有给你点赞的原因……就算我们不能亲自去投诉，我们也可以使用推特、脸书和其他许多社交媒体进行控诉。
but atleast you could have tried
但你至少应该试试。
Call child crisis helpline 1098 if you know them from your locality or the shop has CC TV. You might save someone's future!!!
如果你是当地人，你认识他们，或者商店里有闭路电视，请拨打儿童危机求助热线1098。你可能会挽救某个人的未来！！！
U can atleast change life of 1
你至少可以改变一个人的人生。
Exactly. You can't help all, but you can atleast create a difference in just one person's life. If everyone thought like that, nothing will change.
确实。你不能帮助所有的人，但你至少可以在一个人的生活中创造出不同。如果每个人都像你这样想，一切都不会改变。
I saw a young girl at the airport and realized she was married to an old man. I wanted to intervene and reported it to my supervisor but was told they are legally married and I can't do anything. Hurts though, and this is the US. We have legal loopholes too
我曾经在机场看到一个小女孩，我意识到她嫁给了一个老人。我想干预，我向管理者报告，但他们告诉我，他们是合法结婚的，我什么都做不了。虽然很伤人，但这就是美国。我们也有法律漏洞。
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In India, Child marriage is banned. So that won't happen here. There would be some new bs. But do your job. Let the rest be handled by the authority
在印度，童婚是被禁止的。所以童婚不会在这里发生。有些人可能会说一些屁话。但做好你自己的事情。剩下的交给当局处理。
It is not only illegal but also a very bad violation of child rights.
这不仅是非法的，而且是对儿童权利的严重侵犯。
I agree they should br protectived
我同意他们应该受到保护。
Basically both you and that girl were in same position. Controlled and manipulated by “the great” Indian parents.
基本上，你和那个女孩其实处在同一个位置。被“伟大的”印度父母们控制和操纵着。
True, parents have their kids seeded with the thought that the parents are always right and even supposing that they're humans and can be wrong is seen as a disobedience on children's part. Children are not taught to develop their conscience rather they are taught what is right and what is wrong (no freedom to think)
The parents of the little girl was taught that it was a right thing to do, had they had their conscience they would've understood how wrong it is.
的确，父母给孩子灌输了这样一种思想，即父母总是对的。假设这是真的，但他们也是人，也会有错误的时候，他们只会认为是孩子不服从。他们不教导孩子分辨是非的能力，反而只是告诉孩子，这是对的，那是错的，不允许孩子自己思考。
小女孩的父母教导她，这是一件正确的事情，可以去做。如果小女孩有分辨是非的能力，他就会明白这是多么严重的错误。
Look at her profile pic, do you think she needs awareness for this? she is pursuing nutrition that means she is well educated, well aware of everything, still she posted it here… and here, either the story is made up or if this is the situation then she is coward…
你看看楼主的个人资料，你真的认为楼主没有意识到这些吗？她追求营养，这意味着她受过良好的教育，对一切都很了解，但她还是把它贴在了这里……要么故事是虚构的，如果是真的，只能说明楼主是个懦夫……
U whispered in your mother's ear “ this is so wrong” and she gave an angry look,
U see where the problem is, our parents and our society teaches us to ignore these things
If u wanna make a change start it from your home.
Correct me if i got different meaning out of this story
你在你妈妈耳边低声说：“这是严重的错误。” 然后，你妈妈生气的看了你一眼。
你知道问题出在哪里了吗？我们的父母和社会教导我们忽略这些事情。
如果你想改变，就从家里开始吧。
如果是我把故事理解错了，请纠正我。
Really bad story with heart break, is there any rules India to stop this type of crazy things, poor girl
真的是糟糕的故事，让人心碎，印度有什么规则可以阻止这种疯狂的事情吗？可怜的女孩。
I think this story is made up, and if not this is illegal in India… so she could have complained to police…
我认为这个故事是虚构的，如果不是虚构的，这在印度是非法的……所以她本可以向警方投诉……
I BELIEVE ITS TRUE.I MET A WOMAN FROM INDIA AGE 35 SHE HAS 2 GRANCHILDREN .HER DAUGHTER IS ONLY 15 AND HAS 2 KIDS ALREADY.
我相信这是真的。我遇到一位印度妇女，她35岁，已经是2个孩子的外婆了。她的女儿只有15岁，已经有两个孩子了。
Wait a second… how is that even possible?
等等……这怎么可能呢？
BTW, the child in the picture is not getting married. This is “Kumari puja.”
顺便说一句，照片中的孩子并没有结婚。她叫Kumari puja 。
Lol she didn't use the pic of child she saw. Sge took this pic from internet obviously.-_-
哈哈，她没有用她看到的孩子的照片。这张照片显然是从网上找来的。
It's from a movie
这是电影里的。
It is illegal in India, you should have done something.
童婚在印度是违法的，你应该做点什么。
And… you did nothing?
Besides the circumstances, In the age of Internet and smart phones, you couldn’t think of anything that you could do?
然后……你什么都没做？
在这个互联网和智能手机的时代，你想不出你能做点什么？
If you really felt for her, then you should have called police and tried to contact child support organisations. You just cried for the moment but she will cry for all her life.
如果你真的很同情她，那么你应该报警，并尝试联系儿童支持组织。你只是掉了几滴眼泪，但她会哭一辈子。
If this answer was not written just for upvotes then as a responsible and aware citizen of this country, it is your duty to call the police and report this.
如果这个答案不仅仅是为了获得点赞，那么作为一个负责任、有清醒意识的国家公民，你有责任报警并报告此事。
It is even more horrible when old men marry girl kids like in many mslim communities. Just heart wrenching.
更可怕的是，在很多穆斯林社区都是这样，老年人娶了小女孩。只能痛心。
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This thing doesn't happen now in huge numbers…. And not just Muslims, I've seen even Hindu men marrying young girl… like I had a friend who was 13… she was being married to 40 years old man.. after that no one saw… In her family, every one marries girl before 15.. I don't know the current scenario of that family.
这种事情现在不会大量发生……不止是穆斯林，我也见过印度教的男人娶年轻小女孩……就像我有一个13岁的朋友……她嫁给了一个40岁的男人……在那之后，没有人再见过她……在她的家庭中，每个人都和小于15岁的小女孩结婚……我不知道那个家庭目前的情况。
High caste people?
Usually the highest caste people have highest education level in India. Very rare cases where they do child marriage.
Usually poor low caste people indulge in this.
Do you mind telling which caste? Because this seems made up and honestly very bigoted, considering your religion has codified personal laws which promote Child marriage
高种姓的人？
通常，印度最高种姓的人受教育程度最高。他们童婚的情况非常罕见。
通常是贫穷的低种姓的人沉溺于此。
你介意告诉我，她是哪个种姓吗？因为这似乎是捏造的，而且说实话非常偏执，尤其是考虑到你的宗教已经编纂了促进童婚的属人法。
I don't know her caste as it's been too long. I met her in school and that time who knew caste and all…. But she wasn't from higher caste that I know… her family was very poor…. Her native place was somewhere in West Bengal as she used to speak bangla…. I'm trying to find her contact since I got my own phone but nowhere to be found…. But I believe it that the reason was more of psycho family than the caste or religion… as bengali girls doesn't usually get married before completing education….
我不知道她的种姓，我是在学校里认识她的，那个时候，谁会去问种姓……但据我所知，她不是来自更高的种姓……她的家庭非常贫穷……她的家乡是西孟加拉邦的某个地方，因为她过去常说孟加拉语……自从我有了自己的手机，我就尝试去寻找她的联系方式，但找不到……但我相信更多原因是家庭原因，而不是种姓或宗教……因为孟加拉女孩通常不会在完成教育之前结婚……
Islam is not the problem. India hindu India is the capital of rape and gang rape and honestly it is disgusting.. Any 40 years old man marrying a child is doing it for sex regardless his religion. In the USA some states have the legal marriage age under 18 with the consent of one parent. In fact many states you will be surprised. dowery is given to the female by the male while in hindu it is the opposite the girl have to pay to get married. you might need to revisit a lot of your ideas.
伊斯兰教不是问题所在。印度教让印度成为强奸和轮奸之都。老实说，这太恶心了……任何一个40岁的男人结婚都是为了性，不管他的宗教信仰如何。
在美国，在某些州，只要一方的父母同意，法定结婚年龄可以在18岁以下。事实上，有许多州都对此感到惊讶。嫁妆是由男性给女性的，而在印度则相反，女孩必须付钱才能结婚。你可能需要重新审视你的很多想法。
Islam is the main problem…
伊斯兰教才是主要问题……
Fake story.
假故事。
Everything bad about India is always fake innit?
印度的一切坏事都是假的，是这样吗？
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Was it a real marriage? I have heard that in many traditional countries there is a wedding and the child goes to live with her parents-in-law and their son. The marriage is consummated when she is an adult.
是事实婚姻吗？我听说，在许多传统国家，他们会举办婚礼，小女孩和公婆以及他们的儿子住在一起。当她成年后，婚姻才完成。
This is illegal
这是违法的。
Child marriage should stop.
童婚应该停止。
Why they give birth to the girl at first place if they think she is just born to get married?
如果他们认为女孩生来就是为了结婚，为什么他们一开始要生下她？
It’s illegal to have a child married, this should definitely be reported to the cops!
和一个孩子结婚是违法的，一定要报警！
I don't understand how parents can have a heart of marrying off such small kids? They should be playing out with other kids or taking a stroll with father for chocolates. These little kids aren't prepared mentally, sexually, physically or emotionally for getting married.
我不明白，父母怎么忍心把这么小的孩子嫁出去？他们应该和其他孩子一起玩耍，或者和爸爸一起散步吃巧克力。这些孩子在心理、性、身体或情感上，都没有为结婚做好准备。
You have to file a police complaint against it. I can’t believe that parents would do this to their daughter in today’s world, and if they did, a complaint NEEDS to be filed against them. The poor girl might also be a victim of human trafficking and actions have to be taken against this so please don’t sit quietly. Every life matters.
你必须向警方投诉。
我不敢相信在当今世界，父母会对他们的女儿做这样的事情，如果他们这样做了，就需要投诉他们。那个可怜的女孩，也可能是人口贩买的受害者，必须对此采取行动，所以请不要安静地坐着。每个生命都很重要。
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But can you blame the parents when you have wolfs all around and feel so helpless? No Government or organisation comes to your support. You got to face it all alone.
但是，当你周围都是狼，感到如此无助时，你能责怪父母吗？没有任何政府或组织支持你。你必须独自面对这一切。
The parents can very well be blamed.
父母就应该被指责。
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Stolen childhood it is there in india ver sad…it is like a sexual abuse to children in age of learning and happiness it is like darkness then why say iraq syria it is in India lack of education n nk fear of laws weak n corruption…if ppl would take action it can be hope..
童年被偷走了，在印度是多么可悲……本应该处于学习和幸福年龄的儿童，遭到了性虐待，这就是罪恶。
话说回来，为什么要说伊拉克、叙利亚、印度，缺乏教育、害怕法律、软弱腐败……如果人民采取行动，那就有希望……
hich fucking state is this
这tmd发生在哪个州？
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Anyone can make a call to 1098 to report any crime related to a child in India.
任何人都可以拨打1098举报任何与印度儿童有关的犯罪。
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certainly shocked with this ill-treatment, I don’t think we have any right to spoil any girl’s career through marrying her during her teenage days. When did this incident happen? 2021??? or quite a old one?
我对这种虐待感到震惊。我认为，我们无权在任何女孩十几岁的时候娶了她，这会毁了她所有的人生经历和事业。
这件事是什么时候发生的？2021年？？？还是更早以前？
you know what? some people
still live in 1900s
你知道吗？有些人仍然生活在20世纪。
And the lady came out and stated to you that she was the mother in-law? You automatically knew the kids age? Or these were just assumptions on your part that your sharing to provoke outrage?
是哪位女士对你说，她是她的婆婆？你怎么知道孩子的年龄的？或者，这一切都只是你的假设？你的分享只是为了激起愤怒？
Tf you don't need to ask the toddler age. You can just tell it by looks if someone is a child.
你不需要问孩子的年龄。你可以通过外表来判断某人是否是个孩子。
Let's promise that next time we see something like this we will take the smallest step possible. Atleast it might impact one person's life
让我们做出承诺，如果我们下次看到这样的事情，我们将采取哪怕最小的行动。至少这可能会影响到一个人的生活。
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The only way to stop these atrocities from happening is to educate men in your country not to accept brides under the age if 18 and organise protests to change the law raising the legal age of consent for sex and forbidding child marriages. Being appalled and walking away fors not change anything.
阻止这些暴行发生的唯一方法，是教育贵国男性，不要接受18岁以下的新娘，并组织抗议活动，要求修改法律，提高性行为的法定同意年龄，禁止童婚。
震惊和走开，并不能改变任何事情。
On the year of 1929 anti child marriage law passed in india but still after 80 90 years still child marriage is active like this law violation lots other laws are there in india which was regulated passed quite a long time before to stop all those nonsense actives rituals custom etc in india but still active mostly in those back ward unsofisticated uneducated uncultured perverted mass in india, and government administration are not bothered to stop those activities only for vote bank.
1929年，印度通过了《反童婚法》，但在80、90年后，童婚仍然活跃，这种违法行为非常多。
印度还有许多其他法律，这些法律在很久以前就通过了，目的就是为了阻止印度存在的那些荒谬愚蠢的活动、习俗、仪式等，但这些事情仍然活跃在那些落后的、未受过教育的地方。
为了他们的票仓，政府行政部门也不愿意停止这些活动。
bro that’s illegal, you should’ve called the cops immediately!
兄弟，这是违法的，你应该立即报警！
I don't believe this story
我不相信这个故事。
What the heck? Do these things still exist?? Pathetic.
搞什么鬼？这些东西居然还存在？？令人同情。
Your walking out of the situation was totally wrong, you should have taken a stand & reported it to the local police. A major chunk of our population do not report such crimes, even rape but prefer to remain silent. This is not correct, such crimes should be reported without giving a thought whether the police will take action or not. If you had reported it, they would have had to file an FIR & start investigations. But you have allowed a girl to live a life without knowing what the future holds for her, that too against her choice.
你完全错了，你应该表明立场，并向当地警方报告。
我们的大部分人口不报告此类犯罪，即使是强奸，他们更喜欢保持沉默。
这是不对的，应该举报此类犯罪，而不考虑警方是否会采取行动。如果你报告了，他们就不得不立案，并开始调查。但你让一个小女孩过着不知道未来会如何的生活，这种生活违背了她的选择。
Call 1098 toll free no, and register a complain.
拨打1098免费电话，并进行报案登记。
I have a cousin . When she was 15-16 yr old her parents force her to get married. First people from our family opposes them but they didn't agree. Then what can anyone do when their parents want it. I mean anyone could have filed police case but i don't know why no one done it. I was 13 at that time. My momz dad and me felt very bad for her but no one protest against them. She is not my real cousin but still i feel sad.
我有一个堂姐。在她15-16岁时，她的父母强迫她结婚。我们家的人，是第一批反对的，但她的父母并不同意我们的反对。
所以，如果父母坚持这么做，其他人还能怎么办？我的意思是，任何人都可以替他们报警，但为什么没有人这么做呢？
当时我13岁。我的爸爸妈妈和我为她感到非常难过，但没有人抗议她的父母。
她不是我的亲堂姐，但是我仍然感到非常难过。
Her parents are such jerk.
她的父母真是个混蛋。
I can understand what you have had felt at that time.But actually we can't help…even we ourselves are trapped in one of these kind of situations and what we can do is nothing.
I don't know why world is so cruel for us girls…I don't know what happens to our mothers even that they also start supporting what's wrong.
I am not able to express myselfbut I just want to say kuch bhi change nahi ho Raha bohot sari ladkiyo ke liye aaj bhi sab kuch vaisa hi hai aur hum chah kar bhi abhi kuch nahi kar sakte
Agar kuch kar sakte hain to khud ko unbiased rakh sakte hain aur apni aur apni aane wali generation ki ladkiyo ko support kar sakte hain unlike our mothers who just ignore every wrong thing done to girls but they pay special attention to every minute thing which a girl has done wrong….matlab had hoti hai
我能理解你当时的感受。但实际上我们无能为力……甚至我们自己也会陷入这种情况，我们无能为力。
我不知道为什么这个世界对我们这些女孩如此残酷……我不知道我们的母亲身上到底发生了什么，就算是她们，居然也支持这种错误的事情。
我无法表达我自己的感受。但我只想说：（译注：这里开始变成英文和其他语言夹杂，看不懂，能懂多少懂多少吧，一起猜）
如果我们想改变……拍照……愚蠢的……不偏不倚……一代……支持……不要像我们母亲那样，她们忽视对女孩做的每一件错事，但她们特别关注女孩做错的每一分钟……