因为母亲跟虐待我们的父亲离婚，教会给她寄了一封恐吓信
My old church sending my mom hate mail for divorcing my abusive dad
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贴主的母亲独自抚养四个孩子，丈夫不忠且虐待家人，母亲和他离婚后，教会反而发来信件表示：由于你不愿和丈夫和解，我们要把你踢出教会，并恐吓她“落入了魔鬼的陷阱”。网友们纷纷安慰，给她出主意怎么回信解气，也有比较谨慎的网友劝说最好别再管这件事了，帖主在下面回复：不会给我妈看这封信的，她的心脏已经因为种种压力出了问题。
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以主之名，向你问候！
由于你自2022年12月开始缺席教会，且不愿与丈夫和解，此次特向你发来通知：2023年7月2日，在妥善举行的教会信徒会上，我们投票将你从信徒中剔除。新约时代的信徒们应虔诚地参与他们本地的集会，服从于年长者的领导和圣经的指示。我们曾邀你来进行离开谈话，但未曾收到你是否见面的任何回应。
我们祈祷上帝保佑，许你忏悔，许你认清真相，并使你觉醒，以免落入魔鬼的陷阱（2 Timothy 2：25-26；新约-提摩太后书 第二章 25-26）。
请放心，我们时刻愿与你相见，对你来讲，应该会给你的内心带来改变。
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“And be brought to your senses so as to escape the snare of the devil” - your mother can respond to that saying she has indeed escaped the snare of the devil, and good riddance to the bastard.
Hope you and her are doing ok
“使你觉醒，以免落入魔鬼的陷阱”——这句话你母亲可以这样回：她确实逃离了魔鬼的陷阱，彻底摆脱了那个混蛋，希望你和她安好
Haha I know right. They are apparently sending emails to my older sister as well threatening her with hell and saying all kinds of horrible thinhs
哈哈没错 很显然他们也给我姐寄了这封信，用下地狱威胁她，说了各种恐怖的话
IF YOU DID FIND OUT THE NAME OF THE CHURCH OR PASTOR, PLEASE DO NOT ENGAGE! WE DO NOT NEED AMY FUEL ADDED TO THE FIRE AND WE ARE PRACTICALLY IN HIDING FROM OUR DAD!
如果你确实知道这个教堂或牧师的名字，请不要回信！我们不需要火上添油，而且很显然我们要向我们的主隐藏！
感谢你，姐妹。这封信让我感觉好多了。我现在仍对那些在我成长过程中遇到的人感到无比生气，伤心——之前我叫他们叔叔，婶婶，还有祖父和祖母——他们根据我母亲（我完全支持她）的行为来决定我该相信什么，这给了一个满嘴谎言的虐待狂机会。
感谢大家留言支持我和我母亲（当然还有你，我的姐妹）。记住，如果爱是你信仰的基础，而你不去修持爱，那你就错了，而不是那些寻求保护自己和他们的孩子不受伤害的人。
后续：感谢大家对我们的爱和支持。我仍相信上帝，并且称自己为基督徒，但我绝不会相信他那些盲目狂热的崇拜，而且我非常强烈地再也不想成为教堂的一名“教徒”。现在我正和男朋友还有他的家人在世界上最开心的地方度假，他的天主教家人很好，很有爱。所有花销都由他父母出。他们真的特别好，在我和妈妈还有姐妹们度过那特别艰难的日子时，帮我们走了出来。感谢你们对我们的爱和帮助。红迪（网站名称）的大集体从未停止给我惊喜。我祈祷上帝保佑每一个为我们发声，支持我们的人（就算你不信上帝，也祝愿你），希望大家能看到有趣的车载视频，吃很多披萨
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给大家参考：我现在是一名OPs，之前是提到过的教派的教徒。我今天也收到了他们的一封信，说由于我“没能参加教堂礼拜”以及支持我母亲离婚而决定让我离开。我不想它这样的，我真的崩溃了
So…they fired you after you quit. How childish.
It upsets me that the church representatives’ ridiculous behavior made you feel bad. This is the action of someone who is upset that they are no longer in control of you.
Let him scream into the wind and don’t listen.
那..就是你离职了，然后他们炒了你。好幼稚。
我气的是教会代表这么离谱的举动居然让你伤心。这是脱离了控制反而还伤心的人才会有的举动。
让他们跟空气说去吧，别理他们。
I want to downvote the letter but not you for pointing out the absurdity of this letter! This is why so many many people have left the church. Take note Christian leaders.
我支持你指出这封信有多荒谬，我也要反对它！这就是为啥那么多人不再去教堂礼拜了。注意那些基督领头们
Religious manipulation is a real thing and a very scary one and I really hope more people can be like aware of it because this is such bullshit. Christian leaders abuse their power
宗教操纵确实存在，而且很吓人。我希望更多的人知道，因为那就是狗屁。基督领导们会滥用权力
Everyone here makes excellent points, but so far this hasn’t been mentioned: WTF is the problem with this church’s spelling and grammar errors?
大家的观点都很棒，但有一点一直没提到：这教会的拼写和语法错误是有什么鬼毛病？
Hahahha the man who wrote it is almost 90 . He rambles on and on , he thinks he’s gods right hand man and he’s delusional
哈哈哈写这信的人至少90岁了。他废话连篇，感觉自己是上帝的助手，真是妄想
Fucking disgusting, tell them to go fuck themselves.
真恶心，告诉他们去他妈的吧
Hahah I’ll just say “see you in hell” XD that’ll piss them off
哈哈我就回“地狱见哦”XD 他们会气死
There's no hate quite like christian love.
基督之爱还比不上恨。
Exactly
确实
You spelled “cult” wrong in the headline
你标题写错了，应该写“邪教”
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Pretty much is a cult lmao
差不多就是个邪教，笑死
basically all religions are cults, just if you get a large enough follower base you get to not be called a cult anymore
基本所有宗教都是邪教，只是如果信徒基础足够大，就不再叫邪教了
And this how pedophile rings, serial rapists and wife beaters get protection.
It’s all ok, and you get 100 more chances to be good, so long as you help to prop up our whack-job religion.
恋童癖闭环就是这么形成的，连环强奸犯和虐妻者就是这么被保护的。
只要你帮助支持我们脑残的宗教，这些都无所谓，你还有100次机会变成好人呢。
She should write back. I'm sorry you feel this way. Due to my divorce I stand to make quite a bit of money, and I had intended on sharing a large portion with the church. If you change your mind, you can reach out to me.
Then ghost their gaslighting asses...
她应该这么回：你这么想我很抱歉。我是希望能从离婚搞一大笔钱，而且有意分一大部分给教会。如果你改变想法，可以来找我。
等他们急着找你的时候突然消失...
Hahahha trueee
哈哈哈太对了
But if she had mailed a check in it would all be forgiven!
但是她要是把支票夹在回信里，就什么错都没有啦！
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Nah they would have shamed her for not sending more
不会啦，他们会继续羞辱她，让她掏更多
I’d start my reply with, “Greetings from hell,”
我会这么回：“来自地狱的问候”
Exit interview?! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Tell you're mother to frx it as a badge of honor, she's better off without them.
离开谈话？！哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈
让你妈当荣誉徽章拿相框裱上，离开他们她会过的更好。
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Hahahaha I’m hiding these from her. She doesn’t need the stres. She has a heart condition now because of all the atress
哈哈哈 我把信藏起来了，她没必要承受这个压力。压力太大，她心脏都出问题了
Burn it.
烧了吧。
Hell no, frx it or wear it as a badge of honor.
千万别，当荣誉勋章裱起来或者戴身上。
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Burn it....inside a bible.
夹圣经里一块烧了。
Please tell me she sent back a letter with just « fuck you! » written on it!
快告诉我她回了信而且只写了“去你妈的”！
Haha I wish. I’m not showing her the letter because she has a heart condition because of the amount of stress. Us, ignoring them is making them even more mad which is making me happy.
哈哈我也想。但我不会给她看这封信的，因为她压力太大，心脏出了问题。我们不理他们，才会让他们更抓狂，而我会更开心。
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I had a great true Christian divorce attorney. He gave me many scxtures that made me feel better about divorce and where divorce is actually warranted in the Bible. Made me feel so much better. After meeting my ex, he especially told me I was doing the right thing….I didn’t choose to leave…my ex committed adulatory…but anyway….there was never any guilt anyway but women need to get over it and not the church or anyone give them any guilt or shame. This type of thing is one of the many reasons I left the church.
我有个特别棒的基督教离婚律师，他给我看了很多经文，让我对离婚感觉好多了，也知道了圣经中关于离婚真正讲了些什么。见过我前夫之后，律师特地告诉我做的是对的...不是我想离...是我前夫出轨了...不管怎么说吧...女人不需要有任何愧疚感，只是需要将这事忘却，教堂或其他任何人都不应该附加给她们任何罪恶感或羞耻感。类似这样的事情这就是我离开教会的众多原因之一。
My dad cheated on my mom for a whole year, left her with four kids to rais by herself in a house far from anyone. He beat us and mentally abused us and the “church” is letting him preach there. It’s really sad
我爸对我妈不忠一整年了，在一个远离人烟的房子里给她留下四个孩子独自抚养长大。他以前打我们，精神虐待我们，那所谓的“教会”还让他在那布道。真悲伤。
Why block out the church's name? They should be shamed for this abomination
为啥把教会名字挡上？他们应该为这时感到羞耻
Yah. It’s a very very small church close to my home town so just a precondition. They’re all really old people too so they’ll die within the next five years and so will that “church
这是个很小的教会，在我家乡附近，所以先预防一下。教堂的人都很老了，不出五年都会嘎，教会也一样。
Took about 2-3 minutes to find via Google, but I wouldn't recommend giving them the publicity. Their social media is beautifully empty. No engagement, likes, replies, etc., just one old man yelling at the clouds. Better to leave it be.
我花了两三分钟百度到了，但是我不建议曝光他们。他们的社交媒体特完美，什么都没有，用户参与，点赞，回复等等都没有。就只有一个老头朝着云怒吼的图片（表情包，出自动画《辛普森一家》，多用来表示对某事愤怒）。最好别管这事了。