你今年多大，现在人生中最大的问题是什么？
How old are you and what is the biggest problem in your life right now?
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How old are you and what is the biggest problem in your life right now?
你今年多大，现在人生中最大的问题是什么？
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I'm 57. I'm trying to set up my new phone and it 'can't connect to the server'. I mean, I'm horribly out of shape because of back problems and three surgeries in seven years and I had a stroke a few months ago and I'm getting divorced, but those things are under control. I'm getting annoyed by this phone.
我今年57岁。我在试着设置我新买的手机，它“无法连接到服务器”。我现在因为后背的问题身材走形得厉害，七年接受过三次手术，几个月之前中风过一次，正在准备离婚，这些事情都在我的控制之下。但我被这个手机给气到了。
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36, burnt out by work travel and using it as an excuse to avoid every other issue.
36岁。被出差累坏了，并且在用这个当做逃避其他所有问题的借口。
I’m 51. Broke my back and I’m slowly losing the ability to walk due to nerve damage.
我今年51岁。脊椎骨折了，由于神经损伤正在缓慢地失去行走的能力。
56,I was paralyzed 2 years ago.
56岁，两年前瘫痪了。
Fully paralyzed? Can I ask to hear your story?
完全瘫痪了吗？我能听听你的故事吗？
I'm a paraplegic. Nothing from mid chest down. It's a long story but I'll tell if you want.
我是个截瘫患者。胸腔的中间往下就什么感觉也没有了。这是个很长的故事，但你想听的话我可以讲。
I'm very interested if you're willing to share.
如果你乐意分享的话，我非常感兴趣。
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May 10th,2019. I was turning into the end of my street when a dump truck rear ended me pushing me head on into oncoming traffic where I hit another car. The dump driver was texting and never hit his brakes. He was going 60mph. Technically I was dead. A cop was 2 cars back. He pulled me from the wreckage and performed CPR, reviving me. I was medivact away. I remained in a coma for 42 days where I expired twice more. I awoke to be a paraplegic.
2019年5月10日。我正在街角转弯，一辆翻斗车从后面追了上来，把我一头撞到了车流中，于是我被另一辆车给撞了。卡车司机当时在发短信，一脚刹车也没踩过。他的时速是60英里每小时。我差不多已经死了。两辆车后头有一个警察。他把我从残骸里拖了出来，为我进行心肺复苏，把我复活了。我立刻被医疗直升机运走了。我昏迷了42天，期间又挂过两次。醒来之后我就截瘫了。
Bro you're a triple zombie. Not many people die 3 times and come back to life
兄弟你是个三重僵尸啊。死过三次之后还能活过来，能做到这一点的人并不多啊。
Not even Jesus
耶稣都做不到
I'm 31. Been dealing with appendix cancer for over a decade, I have an ostomy and just recently my kidneys failed so now I'm dealing tubes in my kidneys so they can regain their function. The kidneys failed because urine and bacteria was being backed up in the ureter due to the cancer distorting it. All my bodily functions are now done through external means and it's...
我今年31岁。已经和阑尾癌斗争了10年。身上有造瘘，最近我的肾脏衰竭了，所以我还得把管插到肾脏里去让它重新工作。肾脏衰竭是因为癌症干扰了输尿管，导致尿液和细菌在肾脏中累积。现在基本上我的所有身体机能都是通过外部环境维持的，而且……
反正步骤挺多的。
This sounds like a lot. To second question you, what is the best thing going on in your life right now?
听起来你经历了很多。那么再问一个问题，你现在正在经历的最棒的事情是什么？
Ironically the cancer is the best thing. I'm considered legally disabled and don't have to work. Yeah I get a limited amount of money each month on disability but not being tied to a career and having to go to work every day I have pretty much unlimited time to pursue hobbies or activities I wouldn't be able to do otherwise.
讽刺的是，癌症是我经历的最棒的事情。我被认为是合法的残障人士，因此不需要工作。每个月我因为残疾能领一小笔钱，但我也不需要被捆绑到一个职业生涯上，每天都去工作，所以我基本上有无限的时间可以追求自己那些兴趣或是活动，如果不得癌症的话，我还做不了这些。
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有的时候我会特别无聊，希望能有些事情带走我的注意力，让我能有所期待，但是生活中的积极一面还是比这种时光要多得多。哦对，我也并没有特别严重的疼痛，所以我很幸运。而且因为我的疾病非常罕见（阑尾癌）世界上只有十几个专家研究这个，所以我在以间接的方式成为多个癌症研究的重要部分，所以还挺酷的。
Focus on the good things! Hell yeah! Can we ask what hobbies?
把注意力放在好事的上面！太棒了！可以问问是什么爱好吗？
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Typical nerd shit. Cosplay, gundam and related model building, gaming, even dabbling in painting tabletop minis. I've also contemplated getting into bonsai to give myself an excuse to go outside a bit more each day.
就典型的死宅爱好。Cosplay，高达，还有相关的拼装模型，游戏，甚至给模型上漆。我也一直在考虑做盆栽，好让我有一些多出门走走的理由。
I’m 53 and I’m currently locked in my bedroom to keep away from my mom (79) with Alzheimer’s/dementia because she’s raging at me, hitting me and throwing and breaking things because I told her to not put anything but water in the coffee maker. It’s the 3rd machine she’s fried in 2 months by pouring in coffee with cream/sugar.
我今年53岁，现在我正把自己锁在我的卧室里，躲开我患了阿尔兹海默症和谵妄症的妈妈（79岁），她在对我发火，打我，到处扔东西，因为我跟她说不要往咖啡机里放除了水之外的任何东西。这是她两个月之内弄坏的第三个咖啡机了，因为她往里面倒有奶油和糖的咖啡。
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53, just discovered prostate cancer and in work we have employee co-operation negotiations, they're getting rid of 20% of workers.
53岁，刚刚确诊前列腺癌，工作上正在接受员工合作协商，他们打算开除20%的员工。
但我也一直在参加其他岗位的面试，前途还算不错，而且因为前列腺癌是男性最常见的癌症，他们已经对这个癌症进行了很多的研究，手术很轻松，所以我很乐观。
Like my old cancer pathology prof used to say: 'the majority of men die with prostate cancer than from it'.
正如我的癌症病理学老教授曾经说过的：“身上带着前列腺癌去世的男人，比因为前列腺癌而去世的男人还多。”
25, mom got diagnosed with aggressive cancer a month ago. Enjoy life before the real hard shit hits you, I never realized how easy and unproblematic was before that . Puts things into perspective
25岁，母亲一个月之前确诊了恶性肿瘤。请在被真正困难的事情来袭之前，好好享受你的人生吧。我在此之前从没想过我的人生有多么轻松，多么无忧。很多事都有了新的视角。
I'm 28 and I'm still my own biggest problem
我今年28，我自己仍然是我最大的问题。
Late 20’s are always a mad dash to fix parts of yourself before 30
20岁后半永远是一场疯狂的冲刺，让你赶在30岁之前把自己的各个部分都弄明白。
Lol, same here.
哈哈，我也是。
我今年28岁了，但我仍然觉得自己在很多方面还是个青少年，然而在其他方面，我却觉得自己确实像个成年人了，也该受到成年人一般的对待。
I honestly miss being underestimated as a teen cause the bar was so low it was easy to impress people, not it's high and if I reach it it's whatever but if I don't I'm a failure, ugh.
我真的很怀念作为青少年而被低估的时光，因为那时的标准太低了，你很容易就能给别人留下深刻的印象。现在标准变高了，我就算能达到标准也没什么，但达不到的话我就是个废物了。哎。
27, the feeling of not being enough or just not being where I should've been by now
27岁，那种觉得自己还不够好，或者觉得自己还没有达到本应该达到的位置的感觉。
Recently had an Epiphany that I thought I’d share.
把我最近的顿悟分享在这里：
我会给自己设立一些非常有野心的目标，并且有时我能完成这些目标，这让我无比自豪。但我最近不得不审视我设下的目标，认真考虑考虑这些目标是设给谁的。是给我自己的，还是给那个前任看证明他搞砸了的？还是为了让我看上去是一个会让别人赞叹的人而设立的？
目标本身是好的，但你得保证这个目标真的是跟你自己有关。而且就算你没有以创纪录的速度达成这个目标，你也不要因此感到自尊心受伤。
I'm 57 and I just really don't want to work anymore. That is not an option as I live alone and I need my income to survive. I guess I might be depressed. Just feeling super lazy.
我今年57岁，我真的不想继续工作下去了。我没得选，因为我独居，并且需要这份收入才能活下去。我猜我可能是抑郁了，现在就觉得特别懒。
I feel that. After 30 years of working, I know now what my dad meant when he would say he’s tired. He didn’t mean he didn’t sleep well, he was just done. Hoping something good comes your way soon!
我能理解你的感觉。在30年的工作之后，我现在终于理解我爸说他累了的时候是什么感觉了。他的意思不是昨晚没睡好，他只是没劲儿了。希望你能尽快遇到生活中的幸运！
I am 46. The biggest problem in my life seems to be stagnation leading to boredom and apathy. I go to work, I eat, I sleep, I do it all over again. Here's the weekend. The weekend's gone. I go to work, I eat, I sleep, I do it all over again.
我今年46岁。生命中最大的问题似乎是一种停滞，这会导致无聊和没有同理心。我每天去工作，吃饭，睡觉。然后再重复一遍。周末来了，周末走了。我去工作，吃饭，睡觉。然后再重复一遍。
No one warns you about this aspect of adulthood. I’m 43 and feel the same. I have 19 years until I can retire and for that I know I’m very blessed. However 19 years of this monotony is unimaginable to me right now.
没有人对你警告过成年生活的这一方面。我今年43岁，我也有这种感觉。我还有19年才能退休，我知道自己已经非常幸运了。然而19年的单调重复的工作，对现在的我来说仍然是无法想象的。
There was a philosopher who had something to say about that. I believe it was, "Oh yeah, life goes on. Long after the thrill of living is gone."
曾经有一位哲人说过这个问题。我记得是“哦没错，生活会继续，就算生活的乐趣已然消失，生活也仍会继续。”
Same. 47.
一样。47岁。
我有很棒的生活，没有真正需要关心的问题，但我只是对一切都感到冷漠。不抑郁，但也不快乐。
我希望能感到灵感的火花。我现在灭了。
Omg, same! Everyday is the same, so tired of the monotony
我的天，一模一样！每个人都是一样的，我们对这种单调感到厌倦。
Yeah, is this just how life is? Feels like monday to friday is work anxiety, recover on weekend, repeat.
没错，难道人生就是这样的吗？感觉周一到周五就是工作焦虑，周末用来恢复，然后重来一遍。
17, my mom died a few months ago, and ever since, I feel like I can’t get the person I once was back. I can hardly deal with school on top of everything else going on in life, but dropping out isn’t an option. I feel like I have almost no grip on my life anymore, yet life keeps on going. I feel like I’m gonna drown while fighting to keep getting up in the morning.
17岁，我的母亲几个月之前去世了。此后我觉得自己再也变不回自己之前的那个人了。我几乎连上学都上不了，更不用说生活中的其他事情了，但退学也不可能。我感觉自己已经失去了对人生的掌握，但人生还是在继续。我觉得每天起床的时候都像是在努力让自己不淹没。
I’m really sorry. My dad died when I was 16 and I know how you feel. It gets better though. Trust me. Unfortunately it just takes time. I wrote whole notebooks full of thoughts. I’d just write constantly. It helped to get it out of me and somewhere else. I hope you find something that will help you through it as well!
我真的感到难过。我父亲去世的那年我16岁，所以我了解你的感受。事情会越来越好的，相信我。不幸的是要花时间。我会在笔记本上写各种各样的思路。我会经常写这种东西。它能帮助我不去想这些事，而是去想一些其他的事情。我希望你也能找到一些让你渡过难关的东西！
Reading this thread just goes to show everybody is dealing with shit even if we may not know it, be nice to each other y'all. Peace and love.
读了这个帖子，我发现就算我们不知道，每个人也都在跟自己生活中那些难以应付的事情打交道。所以大家都对彼此好一些吧。和平与爱。
25, money and carreer issues, mental illness, lack of friends.
25岁，金钱和职业生涯的问题，心理疾病，没有朋友。
It's tough when you're around your age. Mid to early 20s a lot people expect you to have your life figured out. What career. In a relationship. The rest of your life figured out.
在你这个年龄确实挺难熬的。奔二之后的前几年，很多人都希望你已经把自己的人生规划好了。有职业生涯，有对象。人生前景十分清晰。
但实际上不是这样的。并且对于很多做不到这一点的人（基本上就是所有人）来说，这都是非常伤人的。
你会找到一份工作的，我希望你会喜欢这份工作。你会慢慢地开始赚钱，并且开始更加了解你喜欢做的，或是不喜欢做的东西。
朋友会慢慢地到来。有些是工作上认识的，有些是会过一阵子失去的，不论这是他们的选择还是你自己的选择。在这条路上，你会遇到那些你真的聊得来的朋友。
不要让你对生活的期望把你自己压垮。尝试保持乐观的态度，并且我很想强调的一点就是当你感觉有必要的时候就找个人聊聊。这没什么好害羞的。根本没有一点好好修的。如果身边找不到什么人，那就找个好的心理治疗师。这会是无价之宝。有些可能跟你合不来，所以如果你去见他们的话，就当自己是给他们做采访！如果你觉得聊不来，或者不论什么原因你觉得不舒服，那就再找另外一个！
抱歉我写了这么多东西。我只是非常理解你现在的状况。我直到30岁之后才开始感觉事情在慢慢变好。
27. Our two year old was diagnosed with cancer last month.
27岁。我两岁大的孩子上个月刚确诊癌症。
Accepting that I'm getting older and not physically the same as I was in my 20s.
承认我正在逐渐变老，并且身体能力不能跟自己20多岁的时候比。
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I was fine before I started reading comments, now I am depressed.
我读评论之前感觉还好，现在我抑郁了。
Reading this thread makes me realise how dumb my problems are.
读了这个帖子我才知道自己遇到的问题有多不值一提。
25 and I waste too much time on reddit
我今年25，我在reddit上浪费了太多时间。
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34… um… I don’t really know. Loneliness? Nonexistent social skills? The super expensive repair on my car? I’d say everything is going rather good.
34岁……嗯……我不太清楚。孤单？基本不存在的社交技巧？修车太贵了？我觉得一切都还算不错。
35, coming to terms with my failed marriage, trying to find self esteem
35岁，即将与失败的婚姻妥协，尝试找回我的自尊。
I’ll be 38 in two days. My grandfather, the man who raised me, died 10 minutes ago.
我还有两天就38岁了。我的祖父，把我养大的男人，10分钟之前去世了。
24 Finding a job that pays enough so İ can move out of living with my toxic family.
24岁，希望能找到一个薪酬足够高的工作，让我能从恶毒的家人中搬出去。
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Hey kids, I’m 68. Recently divorced after 40 years and I’m starting a new life and it’s amazing. You can too!
嘿孩子们，我今年68岁了。40年之后刚离婚，马上要开启新生活了，感觉真棒。你也做得到！
OP, what are you gonna do with all this info on us?
楼主，你收集了我们这么多的信息打算做什么？
I'm going to read through as many as I can and try to be there for as many as I can lol life sucks, but it's also pretty amazing. What someone is going through today and struggling through, some other commenter might have gone through and might be able to offer some advice.
我打算尽量读尽可能多的回帖，并且尽量和他们聊一聊哈哈，人生很糟糕，但是也很有趣。某个人今天正在经历的事情，或许是另一个回帖的人已经经历过的，因此能提供一些建议。
I'm 23 and right now my biggest problem is figuring out what I want to do with my life.
我今年23岁，我最大的问题就是不知道自己以后想要干什么。
Trust me, no one knows.
相信我，没人知道。
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48, trying to come to terms with the suicide of my wife. It doesn't get easier. You just get used to it.
48岁。尝试与妻子的自杀妥协。生活并不会变得简单，你只有适应。
23 no life no friends no love nothing at all
23岁，没有人生，没有朋友，没有爱，啥也没有。
15, my father died a year ago from brain cancer and nobody cared. And still nobody cares, and that made me and still makes me feel lonely and sad.
15岁，我父亲一年前因为脑肿瘤去世了，当时没人在乎，现在仍然没人在乎。这让我直到现在都又孤独又难过。
39, my wife spending too much money when I’m trying to be frugal because I’m unsure of my future income. Also a serious back injury that I’m trying to overcome.
39岁，我的妻子花太多钱，但我想要省钱，因为我对于自己未来的收入感到担忧。而且我的后背也受了很严重的伤，我希望自己能克服。
23, depression, lack of relationships
23岁，抑郁，缺乏人际关系。
Eh, the early 20's can be rough. Your are barely an adult but all else being equal, you are expected to be enough of an adult to be financially responsible for yourself. If you did go to university, you probably just finished it and you have that wonderful combination of lots of debt with no practical job experience.
呃，20岁前半确实会很困难。你刚刚成为大人，但其他条件不变的情况下，大家却都期待你成为一个能经济上自给自足的成年人。如果你上了大学，那么你应该刚毕业，身上背了一大堆债，又没有实际的工作经验。
还有，如果你因为自己的教育或工作而搬过家，那么你的社交圈子就很分散，这让你保持任何社交生活都很困难。并且和高中、大学时不一样的是，现在你和你的同龄人不再拥有相同的日程表了。
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我唯一的建议就是：别因为觉得一段情感关系能弥补你的生活或是让你觉得开心，就去找对象。努力去做你知道自己想要做的事情就行。当你不再散发出“我的人生真糟糕我好孤单一切都好糟糕”的绝望气味的时候，找到一个值得相处的对象要容易得多。如果你至少能达到对自己的生活感到满意的程度，再处个值得托付的对象就更容易了。
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Fair. I'm 29 and didn't even know my fiancé existed when I was 23. I was also in a hellish point in my life. Got a house and a great job now too. Things can change drastically for the better in a year or two. Keep your chin up through the mud bud
没错。我今年29岁，23岁那年我甚至不认识我的未婚妻。我当时的人生也惨到了极点。但后来我有了房子，现在我也有了很棒的工作。事情可以在一两年之内发生极大的好转。就算在泥泞里也要抬起头，兄弟。
55, my health is very poor. Listen kids, when “they” say, you have everything if you have your health, don’t roll your eyes because it’s so true. I never took my health seriously and now I’m paying the price. I will be super shocked if I make it to 60.
55岁，我的身体状况非常糟糕。听着孩子们，当“有人”说，只要你拥有了健康你就拥有了一切的时候，你可千万不要翻白眼，因为这非常真实。我从来没把自己的健康当回事过，但现在我要付出代价了。如果我能活到60岁，我就很吃惊了。
17, uni admissions and what i want to do in the future
17岁，大学录取，以及以后打算做什么
My fiance went to college for 5 years to become a sign language interpreter. She graduated and immediately went into an early childhood center and is completely in love with her job.
我的未婚妻5年前上大学，目标是成为手语翻译。她毕业之后却立刻去了一家早教中心，现在彻底爱上了自己的工作。
我从中学到的是，你可以全力以赴地去做某件事情，花费所有的时间和经历，流血又流汗又流泪，但最后发现你想要做的其实是之前你甚至考虑都没考虑过的事情。如果你经历了这样的事情，请不要因为任何人而让你感觉自己走到今天这里是白费时间。
Thank you so much for saying this. I went to school for 6 years including grad school to become an occupational therapist. I graduated into the pandemic and I cannot get a job of any kind. The medical world is so effed up right now, and I have very little practical experience, so I’m also getting turned down for jobs I apply for that are really entry-level non-medical jobs. I’ve been feeling so guilty and defeated for working so hard to get my master’s and license and finding out that the work environment is terrible and no one will hire me anyways. Everyone from my parents to all the people around me in my life are upset with me and think I’m just not trying hard enough to apply for jobs and am just too lazy to work. I’m really struggling
很感激你说了这些。我在学校读了6年的书，包括研究生，想要成为一名作业治理哦是。我毕业之后正好赶上疫情，所以我找不到任何相关的工作。今天的医学世界已经太烂了，并且我也没有任何临床经验，因此就算是那些入门级别的，跟医疗无关的工作，我也被拒绝了很多。我感到非常有罪恶感和挫败感，因为我付出了很大的努力才得到硕士学位和行医执照，结果发现我的工作环境很糟糕，并且没人愿意雇我。从我的父母到我身边的所有人，他们都对我非常失望，觉得我只是没努力找工作或是懒得工作。我真的感觉很难受。
I'm 24 but keep thinking im 23 and saying that when people ask.
我今年24岁，但我总觉得自己是23岁，别人问的时候我也这么说。
If that is your biggest problem you are doing fine!
如果这就是你最大的问题的话，那你过得还不错！
31, spending too much money.
31岁，花钱花太多。
Same except I'm 25, I get happy every time I spend
我也一样，但我25岁。至少每次花钱的时候我都很开心。
Same. Makes you feel good, until you look at your bank statement lol
我也一样。让你感觉不错，直到你看见自己的银行账户哈哈哈
有心理治疗师认为这是自残的一种形式。我不得不同意这种观点哈哈