街访日本单身母亲
Being a Single Mother in Japan | THE VOICELESS #33
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网友：她在缺爱的环境中长大，所以长大以后她不知道应如何被爱，我希望她以后可以过上快乐稳定的生活
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Her parents didnt bring her up in a loving environment, so she grew up not knowing how she should be loved. I really hope she will find joy and stability from here on.
她在缺爱的环境中长大，所以长大以后她不知道应如何被爱，我希望她以后可以过上快乐稳定的生活
It's not that easy
没有那么容易
No one knows how her parents raised her - she only said they were very strict with her. That doesn’t mean she was unloved.
没有人知道她的父母是如何养育她的，她只是说他们对她很严格，这并不意味她的父母不爱她
My life is really shitty right now but looking at people like her makes my troubles really insignificant. She is truly a strong person. A lot of respect for her.
我现在的生活真的很糟糕，但看着像她这样的人，让我觉得自己的麻烦实在是微不足道。她真的是一个很坚强的人。
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"I don't care what happens to me. But I have someone I want to protect now. So I think that's why I didn't choose to die that day."
I'm crying. A mother's will-power is indeed above everything else.
“我不在乎自己发生了什么。但现在我想保护别人，所以我认为这就是自己那天没有选择去死的原因。”
我哭了，母亲的意志力胜过世上的一切
That's not exclusive to mothers. While she is a good mom, that's just basic parenting in general.
并不是只有母亲才这样，虽然她是一个好妈妈，但基本上每个父母都是这样的
Well anyones not ready to sacrifice for their young better not bring any soul.
没有准备好为孩子牺牲的人最好不要生孩子。
She's developed bipolar to the point of suicide!? In Japan, it seems like the stigma is intense. Shaming for being a single mother...what about the absentee father?
她患有躁郁症，甚至到了自杀的地步!在日本似乎成为单身母亲是一种耻辱，那么缺席的父亲呢？
To be fair, they have one of the lowest single mother rate s in the world. Same with teen pregnancy.
老实说，日本的单身母亲比例是全世界最低的之一，青少年怀孕比例同样也是最低的
Fr, unfortunately the stigma is with the mom and not the dad. Even tho the dad is the one who cheated on her several times and could not accept her mental illness. When she talked about why they divorced, she worded it like it was her fault. She said she had a bad reaction due to her being bipolar, when in reality it was the husbands actions that triggered her.
不幸的是，受到耻辱的是母亲，而不是父亲。这个男的多次背叛她，而且无法接受她的心理疾病。当她说到离婚原因时，她说是自己的错。她说由于躁郁症，她常常会有不良反应，但事实上，是她丈夫的行为对她产生了刺激
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"Always be yourself. Live your life as you want. And you might perhaps face difficulties, but know that all those experiences will help you grow. And without those experiences, there'd be a lot of things in life you wouldn't be able to see. So I just want to say that there are no wrong decisions in life."
“永远做你自己。过自己想要的生活。你可能会面临困难，但所有那些经历都会帮助你获得成长。没有这些经历，生活中很多事情你是看不到的。所以我想说生活中没有错误的决定。”
Japanese society can be so hard, this woman deserves alot of respect if you know what she has been trough and how she tries to survive and be successful.
日本社会是如此艰难，如果你知道她经历了什么，以及她是如何努力生存和成功的，那么就应该给予她更多的尊重
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She's a real Hero.
她是真正的英雄
I feel like crying hearing her message for her daughter. Really, the kindest people are the ones who faced the greatest hardships
听到她给女儿的留言，我都想哭了。真的，那些最善良的人往往经历过最大的困难的
She has been through so much, I'm literally in tears. I'm so happy she's surviving(or so it seems) and is trying to be strong
她经历了那么多的困难，我都快哭了。我很高兴她能活下来(至少看起来是这样)，并努力变得坚强
Same here. The thing she would tell her daughter is amazing. She should write a book or something to share her experience
我也一样。她对女儿说的话真是太精彩了。她应该写一本书和别人一起分享。
she’s so beautiful. I hope her and her little girl are doing well!
她很漂亮。我希望她和她的小女儿一切都好!
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I suffer of Bipolar aswell, and it took me 4 years to recover etc. Having a child during such a time must be an unbelieveable difficult task. I barely managed life for myself. But you having a kid at the same time. Im lost in words.
我也患有躁郁症，花了4年时间才康复。在这样的时期要孩子一定是困难的难以置信。我自己的生活都不怎么好。但你同时还有个孩子。我说不出话来了。
Im a son of a single mother
respect to all the single moms
我成长于一个单亲家庭
我尊重每一个独自抚养孩子的单亲妈妈
have a hard life as a child, getting beaten by her boyfriend, divorced, single mom raising her daughter while having BPD all along those journey.
童年生活艰难，被男友殴打，离异，作为单身母亲一边患有躁郁症，一边抚养女儿。
such a pretty n young girl, hope she eventually meet someone who truly love n treasure her. No one deserves to be ill-treated.
她是一个相当漂亮的女孩，希望她最终能遇到一个真正爱她、珍惜她的人。没有人应该受到虐待。
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I love how she’s not afraid of sharing her own story
我喜欢她能勇于和别人分享自己的故事
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I’m so thankful that she shared her story especially surrounding the idea of mental health.
我很感激她能分享自己的故事，特别是关于心理健康的想法
You and your daughter are beautiful on the inside and outside. I've been a single parent for many, many years and it's a big job and the most hardest job in life you will ever have. It's even a more harder job when you don't have a positive support system and are always being put down, judged and belittled.
你和你女儿都很漂亮，不管是内在还是外在。那么多年来，我也是一个人抚养孩子，这是一项艰巨的任务，或许是人生中最难的事情。如果身边没有人支持，总是被人贬低，评判和轻视的话，那么就更难了。
My mother was in the same boat as her. During the immigration from Vietnam to Hawaii, my grandparents didn't like my biological dad and decided not to sponsor him. Afterwards and when I was only 5 years old, my mom was kicked out of my grandparents home. With no money and almost homeless, my mom had to make ends meet to keep us alive. Luckily, my step dad came into our picture and help us out. So both of my grandparents are gone and recently my grandpa passed away not too long ago. When I heard the news about his passing, I didn't weep at all. I didn't bother go to the hospital where he was dying, nor do I care about going to his funeral. But out of the respect of my mom, I will attend, because I love her very much.
我妈妈和她处境相同。在从越南移民到夏威夷的过程中，我的外祖父母不喜欢我的生父，决定不资助他。后来，在我5岁的时候，我妈妈被外祖父母赶了出来，我妈妈身无分文，而且几乎无家可归，不得不量入为出维持生活。幸运的是，我的继父出现了，帮助我们摆脱了困境。我的祖父母都去世了，最近我的外祖父也去世了。当我听到他去世的消息时，我没有哭。我没去医院看他，也不想去参加他的葬礼。但是出于对妈妈的尊重，我还是会去的，因为我非常爱她。
A mother who looks after her daughter before herself even after going through all this, god bless her
一位母亲在经历了这一切之后仍然将照顾自己女儿看的比自己更重要，愿上帝保佑她
She's a good mom. She's doing the best she can and doing a great job.
她是个好妈妈。她尽了最大努力，做得很好。
I salute all the single mother. you will never know how they handle all hard times when they're alone raising their child.
我向所有的单身母亲致敬。你永远不会知道她们独自抚养孩子时是如何度过所有困难的。
The dislikes are from the people who made girls pregnant and left alone
讨厌的是那些让女孩怀孕并抛弃她们的人
I’m a single father with 3 daughters and I understand how she feels. I was frustrated but looking up after my daughters made me strong and work harder.
我是一个单身父亲，有三个女儿，我明白她的感受。我很沮丧，但看着我的女儿们，我变得更加坚强起来，更努力地工作。
I wish you and your daughters the best!
祝你和你的女儿们一切顺利!
God bless you, you're an amazing father
上帝保佑你，你是个了不起的父亲
I wish you all the best in life, for you and your daughters!
祝你和你的女儿们，生活一切都好!
I hope you invest in some cryptocurrency to benefit your kids financial freedom in few years to come. All the best sir hope it will all work out well for you.
我希望你投资一些加密货币，让你的孩子在未来几年内获得财务自由。祝你一切顺利，先生，希望你一切顺利。
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Hope she finds someone, who will appreciate her because she really is amazing (both on the outside and inside).
希望她能找到一个欣赏她的人，因为她真的很棒(无论是外在的还是内在的)。
I wish I can go tell her : you are capable of having a good life with your daughter. Be brave , be brave and one day you can see the light shine through. Lady , I wish you all the best.
我希望能告诉她:你有能力让你的女儿和自己过上好日子。勇敢点，总有一天你会看到光明。女士，祝你一切顺利。
I dont know why, but after saw her I felt that I could be a good father to a japanese kid
我不知道为什么，但看到她后，我觉得自己可以成为一个日本孩子的好父亲
she's not just pretty on the outside, but her soul is also beautiful! i hope she'll be happy from now on
她不仅长的漂亮，而且心灵也很美!我希望她能从此幸福
I really like japanese culture, and i really want be there someday,
我真的很喜欢日本文化，我真的希望有一天能去那里，
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Loved this episode. Great interview. I hope she finds the happiness she seeks one day.
喜欢这一集的内容。不错的采访视频。我希望有一天她能找到她想要的幸福。
Such a sad story. I hope she and her daughter find true happiness in life.
真是个悲伤的故事。我希望她和她的女儿能在生活中找到真正的幸福。
She's gorgeous! I hope she can continue to keep fighting through.
她很棒!我希望她能继续奋斗
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I'm so impressed by how open she is about her private life in this interview
让我印象深刻的是，她在这次采访中对自己的私人生活如此公开
Didn’t you listen her at all? She said she’s getting better and that before she wouldn’t have been able to do something like this
你根本没听她说话吗?她说她正在好转，以前她不可能做这样的事
Face the fears. That is how you diminish and control it.
直面恐惧，这样你才能战胜它
God bless the mon and her lovely kid
上帝保佑她和她可爱的孩子
She is really doing her best in life. I am also diagnosed as “bipolar”, I am also a single mother who went through similar experience as her, cheated by boyfriend during pregnancy. i like what she said in the end. We learn more about ourselves and life after what challenges we had faces. I am a happy mom just like her. Wish her all the best.
她真的是尽了最大的努力。我也被诊断为“躁郁症”，作为单身母亲和她有着类似的经历，在怀孕的时候被男友欺骗，我喜欢她在视频结尾说的那些话。在面对挑战后，我们对自己对生活有了更多的了解。跟她一样，我也是一位快乐的妈妈。祝她一切都好
From which country you are mam?
你来自于哪个国家？
Emphony AMV I am Chinese who lives in sweden.
我是中国人，现在在瑞典生活
Hope you and your little one are doing good.
希望你和你的孩子一切都好。
Good luck and stay strong
祝你好运，希望你能坚强
Aww that is so sad.
真是让人难过
Lucky she has matured daughter who cares her now
幸运的是，她现在有个成熟的女儿关心她
Good luck to both of them. I have a feeling they will have a great future.
祝她们俩好运。我有一种感觉，她们会有一个很不错的未来。
The young lady is well composed and is aware of her condition. It's sad to know that in Japan single mothers are looked down upon. I'm sure not all, but most are because of the culture. She's an inspiration to many who have no one to count on.
这位年轻的女士很冷静，她知道自己的情况。得知在日本单身母亲被人看不起，我很难过。我想不是所有的人都这样，这主要是文化造成的。对于很多无依无靠的人来说，她的故事真的很鼓舞人
I would think this is widespread in all of the Asian countries. Hell, even here in America it happens.
我认为这在所有亚洲国家都是很普遍的事情。甚至在美国也有这种事。
this is incredibly inspiring and her fighting spirit resonates inside of me ever since I watched this video for the first time. I hope she's doing ok.
这非常鼓舞人心，自从我第一次看这个视频时，她的奋斗精神就在我心里产生了共鸣。我希望她一切都好。