你是如何生活的?(下)
How are you living life?
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你的生活感悟可以聊聊吗？
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How are you living life?
你是如何生活的?
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I wrote this two days back.
I don't know what is going on? I don't know what will happen! I cannot recall what happened and I am afraid what might happen.
Life is uncertain. It changes its questions everyday but we try to solve them using the same answers.
I find world a strange place to live in.
A place where everyone wants to be heard, no one wants to listen.
A place where everyone is lonely, yet no one connects deeply.
A place so beautiful yet perceived as ugly.
A place which lives in virtuality but demands reality.
A place where everyone expects respect yet they are unlikely to give up on their ego.
A place where they won't tolerate if you are different yet tell you are unique.
A place well equipped with gadgets yet people are uncomfortable.
Well, I am just trying to understand everything.
这是我两天前写的：
我不知道这是怎么回事？我也不知道会发生什么事！我也不记得发生了什么以及恐怕会发生什么。
所以生活是不确定的。它每天都在改变它的问题，但我们试着用同样的答案来解决它们。
我觉得世界是个奇怪的地方。是一个每个人都想被倾听，但没有人愿意倾听的地方。在这里每个人都是孤独的，但没有人进行深入的交流。
世界是一个如此美丽却被认为很丑陋的地方。是一个生活在虚拟世界中却需要现实的地方。
在这里，每个人都希望得到尊重，但他们不太可能会放弃自我。
在这个地方，即使你与众不同，他们也不会容忍你说你是独一无二的。
这是一个设备齐全却让人不舒服的地方。
好吧，其实我只是想了解这一切的事情而已。
My most important points focus on what I don't do: put myself in a comparative position relative to others, and do away with regrets. I find it so sad on here and elsewhere whenever I read a question someone asks where they beat themselves up by comparing themselves, their value as a human and lives to others. The fact is we're not all the same, and we all react to the world the way we do in our own unique way.
Personally I never wanted a glittering life full of friends, tons of dates, endless travel, unlimited experiences, etc. It shocks me how people can react to you whenever you state that you don't want to live their type of life, like there's something wrong with you. I'm more than content with having very few friends and acquaintences. I'm content with being single and not dating a great deal. I'm content with controlling my life and what I like, and not doing what others expect of me.
I basically try to appreciate what I have and not beat myself up over what others have. I don't let fear control my life, but I also focus on attaining what I want to accomplish. One thing I don't do anymore is take on challenges that I'm not really into, giving me the time and opportunity to focus on the goals I consider important.
我最重要的一个观点就是，把时间集中在我们不会做的事情上：把自己和其他人放在同样的位置上进行比较，并且不要后悔。每当我在这里或者其他地方看到有的人问的一些问题时，我都觉得很悲哀，因为他们通过把一个人的价值和生活与其他人进行比较。事实上，我们每个人都不一样，我们都以自己独特的方式对世界做出了反应。
就我个人而言，我从来都不想要一个充满朋友，充满无数次约会，以及无休止的旅行、无尽的经历等光彩照人的生活。但让我感到震惊的是，当您声明你不想过这种生活的时候，他们是怎么回应你的，就好像你有什么问题一样。我对我现在只有少数朋友和熟人的状态很满足，我对我的单身以及不经常约会的状态感到很满足。我满足于控制自己的生活，以及做自己喜欢做的事，而不是做别人希望我做的事。
我一直在努力珍惜我所拥有的所有东西，而不会因为别人拥有一些我没有的东西去责备我自己。我不会让恐惧控制我的生活，但我也会专注于实现我想要完成的事情。我现在不再接受我不喜欢的挑战，我会把时间和机会专注于我认为重要的目标上面。
A simple life. I have believed in some basic principles and tried to follow them as far as practicable, like--
1. Plain living and high thinking,
2. Cut your coat, according to your cloth,
3. Honesty is the best policy,
4. A stich in time, saves nine,
5. It is never too late to mend,
6. Where there is a will, there is a way,
7. God helps those, who help themselves,
8. As you sow, so you reap,
9. Try and fail, but never fail to try,
10. Work is worship....etc.
I am not a saint or a preacher and have had my share of pains and pleasure, success and failures, good or evil etc., but I have found these sayings very practical and helpful so far.
一个非常简单的生活方式。我相信一些格言，并在可行的范围内尽可能的遵循这些基本原则，比如：
1. 生活要朴素，情操要高尚。
2. 量体裁衣。
3. 诚实是最好的品质。
4. 小洞不补，大洞吃苦。
5. 亡羊补牢，为时未晚。
6. 有志者，事竟成。
7. 天助自助者。
8. 种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆。
9. 尝试可能会失败，但绝对不要放弃尝试。
10. 要尊敬工作等。
我既不是圣人也不是传教士，我虽然经历过痛苦和快乐，成功和失败，善与恶等事情，但我发现这些格言到目前为止都是非常实用和有帮助的。
To put it brief and to the point, I don't live life. I haven't even lived one single day of my life. I exist. There is nothing else. I have no goals, desires, plans, hobbies, skills, inspiration, talents, aspiration, or interests. I just wake up. Why? I don't know. I have never known. I will never know.
简而言之，我没有生活。我这辈子没有真正的活过一天。我仅仅只是在这个世界上存在着而已，没有什么别的意义。我没有目标，没有愿望，没有计划，没有爱好，没有技能，没有灵感，没有才能，没有抱负，也没有兴趣爱好。我就像是刚睡醒的一个人一样，为什么会这样？我也不知道，而且，我永远都不会知道。
The best I can, on my own terms. I honestly don’t care how others judge my life, because you only live once, and I don’t want to live a life full of regrets. If people say that my life is less than ideal, well fuck em. The things this world values, I don’t, and if they want to live their lives to please others, that’s on them. You can keep your mortgage, and your PTA meetings, and your high powered job in the corporate world, I would rather live a life free of all that Bullshit.
我会尽我所能，以我自己的方式好好的生活。老实说，我并不在乎别人怎么评价我的生活，因为人的生命只有一次，我不想活在一个充满遗憾的人生里。如果有人说我的生活不够理想，那就随他们说去吧。这个世界看重的东西，我不看重，如果他们想通过自己的生活来取悦别人，那就让他们去吧。你可以继续做你的抵押贷款、你的家庭教师联谊会以及你在企业界的高级工作，但我宁愿过一种没有这些废话的生活。
We are living this life to find happiness.
All our actions are ultimately targetted in searching for our happiness. We look for happiness in buying new things, travelling or in making new friends.
The problem is that these sources of happiness don’t provide us happiness for long. New things become old, for travel we need fitness that doesn’t last forever and friends have to also part ways with time.
Whatever gives us happiness has an expiry date. Even our own body deteriorates with time.
So is true happiness an illusion?
If happiness is an illusion then why do we yearn for it?
Is there a secret which when unfolded would make us feel happy and thus complete?
It's no secret. It's something which is a part of our being. It's LOVE. When we feel loved or when we love someone then we feel complete and that gives us happiness.
We look for this in our family, our friends and in a partner. But again they would leave us, either due to destiny or after some time. If nothing else then death would take them away from us.
Again our search for that eternal and everlasting love that could give us happiness seems illusionary.
我们活着就是为了寻找幸福。
我们所有的行为最终都是为了寻找我们的幸福。我们通过购买新东西、旅游或结交新朋友来寻求快乐。
但问题是，这些幸福的源泉并不能给我们带来长久的幸福。因为新事物会变得陈旧，旅行需要我们一直保持身体健康，而这并不能永远持续下去，朋友也会随着时间的流逝而分开。
任何能给我们带来幸福的东西都有有效期。即使是我们自己的身体也会随着时间的流逝而退化。
那么，真正的幸福是一种幻觉吗？
如果幸福是一种幻觉，那么我们为什么这么渴望它？
是否有一个秘密，当它被揭开的时候，会让我们感到快乐，从而感到圆满。
但这已经不是什么秘密了，它已经是我们生活中的一部分了——这就是爱。当我们感觉到被爱，或者当我们爱一个人时，我们会觉得自己的人生“被”完整了，这给我们带来了幸福。
我们在我们的家庭、朋友和伴侣中寻找这种感觉。但他们最终还是会离开我们，不管是因为命运使然还是因为经过了时间的洗礼。就算不是因为这些，最后死亡还是会把他们从我们身边带走。
那么我们对于那些能给我们带来永恒的幸福以及永恒的爱的追求，难道都是虚幻的吗？
From where did mystics and saints get happiness such that even the tortures given to them by the society did not make them hate anyone? They became a personification of love.
They went inside themselves to find it. They all meditated and experienced love.
How they learnt to contemplate and meditate so that they felt the bliss?
They all had a master who guided them and lead them on the way of self-realisation leading to the realization of the eternal power which is another name of love.
A life spent in pursuit of that master who could make us feel loved and could help us attain everlasting happiness would be a life well spent.
Some people feel that there is no need of master. We could find our happiness on our own.
My answer would be that even if we start searching by reading scxtures or listening to discources, then also it's a welcome step.
Those people are better than the people who even don't know why they are living this life?
Atleast they have started the search for their true and everlasting happiness.
一定会有答案的。
那些神秘主义者和圣人又是从哪里得到的幸福呢，以至于即使社会对他们施加了酷刑，也没有使他们憎恨任何人？他们成为了爱的化身。
他们回归了自己的内心去寻找幸福，他们都在不断的思考中，体验了爱情。
他们是如何学会通过思考和冥想来获得幸福的？
他们都有一位导师指导他们，并带领他们走上实现自我的道路，从而获得了永恒的力量，这就是爱的另一个名字。
如果我们一生都在追求那位能让我们感受到爱，并能帮助我们获得永恒的幸福的大师，那我们这一生都会过得很好。
有些人觉得我们并不需要导师，我们可以自己找到幸福。
我的答案是，即使我们开始通过阅读圣经或听演讲来寻找幸福，这也是一个可喜的一步。
那些人甚至都不知道为什么选择过这种生活是更好的选择。
至少他们已经开始寻找能令他们自己获得真正的和永恒幸福的方式了。
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Let's talk about simple things from the perspective of an ordinary state of mind. If we can live our life to it's fullest then yes, we can jump into a path which is unknown and our destiny.
1、We live because there are people who love us, and people we love back.
2、We live because we want to find out things, and learn, and become able to do things that we would like to do.
3、We live because others want us to.
4、We want them to live along with us.
5、We live because we have hope,
6、We live because we want to see what happens next.
让我们从一个普通的心理状态的角度来讨论一些简单的事情。如果我们能活得很充实，那么是的，我们可以跳进一条未知的道路，因为这是我们的命运。
1、我们活着，是因为有人爱我们，也有我们爱的人。
2、我们活着，是因为我们想要发现新事物并去努力学习，最后成为有能力做我们想做事情的人。
3、我们活着是因为别人希望我们活着。
4、我们希望他们和我们一起生活。
5、我们活着因为我们有希望，
6、我们活着，是因为我们想知道接下来会发生什么。
1. Why is the sun living its life - To spread shine.
2. Why is a flower living its life - To blossom and spread the fragrance
3. Why is a Honeybee living its life - To prepare honey
Well if you carefully observe anything in nature exists to contribute its own existence, not to serve a purpose rather for what it is. The sun never thinks to prepare honey and honeybee never thinks about why it is living its life.
Nature is extremely intelligent than what you think it is. It has already inherited certain traits in you which are leading you to ask this question.
You are asking this question probably nature is letting you inquire about this!
Don’t stop and look for an answer. Seek it!
Why are we living this life? May be to seek an answer to this question. You are living this life to create and contribute your own answer for the above question asked :)
1、 为什么太阳要努力的生活——为了散发光芒。
2、 为什么一朵花要努力的生活——为了绽放并散发香气。
3、 为什么蜜蜂要努力的生活——为了准备蜂蜜。
如果你仔细观察自然界中的任何事物，你就会发现，它们的存在都是为了贡献自己的存在，不是为了服务于某种目的，而是为了它的本来面目。太阳从来没有想过要准备蜂蜜，蜜蜂也从来没有想过它们为什么要活着。
大自然比你想象的要聪明得多。它已经在你们身上遗传了某些特质，这些特质正引导你们问出这个问题。
你现在问这个问题，也许正是大自然想让你问的！
不要停止寻找答案。一定要找到他！
我们为什么要过这样的生活？可能就是为了寻求这个问题的答案。你现在之所以过这样的生活，也许就是为了创造并贡献自己的答案。
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I think that to answer this question accurately we must first answer the timeless question, “Why are we?” Once we can determine why we are here we can then begin to answer what our purpose is. We all have our own answer as to what our individual or societal purpose is, but we still have not answered the question which has occupied philosophers down through the ages - “Why?”
Personally, my spirituality has me answering the question you ask this way: Why are we here, for those spiritual of us, is because God, or the ultimate power in the universe, placed us here, supposedly to manage and have dominion over this planet while we live. Now, to your question, what we are supposed to do is learn all we can from this life so we can be good stewards of our planet, as we were tasked. More importantly, though, is to learn all we can so we are better prepared for what our next life, and the lives that follow, challenges us with.
我认为要准确地回答这个问题，我们就必须首先回答永恒这个问题，“为什么是我们？”一旦我们能确定我们为什么会在这里，我们就能开始回答我们的目标是什么。对于我们的个人或社会目标是什么，我们都有自己的答案，但我们仍然没有回答困扰哲学家们多年的问题，就是“为什么?”
就我个人而言，我以这样的方式来回答你的问题：我们为什么会在这里？是因为上帝，或者是因为宇宙中的终极力量，他们把我们放在这里，据说是为了让我们活着的时候能够好好的管理和统治这个星球。所以我们现在应该做的是，从这个生命中学到所有我们能学到的东西，这样我们才能成为我们这个星球的好管家，正如我们被赋予的使命那样。然而，更重要的是，尽我们的所能去学习，这样我们才能更好地为下辈子以及接下来的生活所带来的挑战做好准备。
The purpose for all humans right now is to grow in humaneness, to be of service, to help others and to evolve in morals.
We come from the animal kingdom and have now evolved into humans. Once we were ferocious warriors (and some still are) but as we live life after life we reap a lot of suffering from what we have sown preciously. When we reap suffering we develop our humanitarianism and ability to feel compassion.
For each life we live, we move one step further to becoming real human beings who cannot steal, lie, brag, maim, hurt and kill. In this way we unlearn our more primitive traits and become more and more all-loving and less and less egoistic.
That is the purpose of life at the stage we are at right now.
现在人类的目标是在人性中获得成长，通过为他人服务以及帮助他人，在道德中不断完成进化。
我们来自动物界，但是我们现在都已经进化成人类了。我们曾经是凶猛的战士（有些人现在仍然如此），但是随着我们世世代代的生活，我们从我们不断的体验中收获了很多的苦难，我们又从这些苦难中学会了人道主义精神和共情能力。
我们现在的生活方式，都是为了成为一个不能偷窃，撒谎，吹牛，残害，伤害和杀戮的真实人类迈进一步，通过这种方式，我们忘却了更原始的特征，我们变得越来越热爱一切，变得越来越不利己主义。
这就是我们现在在这个阶段生活的目的。
we are just a very small part of a very huge process going on from ages. and i.e EVOLUTION.
the only purpose of any living creature on this planet is to survive and continue our bloodline.
even animals do it. the only difference we have is we got "brains".
So we do it in a more organised way. We earn ,we build homes,we aspire to gain power in society ,all this just that our bloodline has a better chance of surviving.
Rest joy of life,love,sadness everything is creation of mind and nothing else,all temporary stuff.
我们只是历史长河这个巨大过程中的一小部分，也就是进化论。
所有在这个星球上存活的生物，他们存在的唯一目的就是为了生存和延续他们的血脉。
所以，即使是动物，它们也是这样做的。但我们和动物的唯一的区别就是我们有“大脑”。
所以我们用一种更有条理的方式来做到这一点。我们努力挣钱，我们建造家园，我们渴望在社会上获得权力，所有的这一切都只是为了我们有更好的发展机会。
我们享受着生活中的欢乐、爱以及悲伤，但这一切都是心灵创造出来的，所以这一切都只是暂时的东西。
For freedom and liberation from the body identity. To know that we are living forever.
This is the purpose of our living this is my idea and I try for this till the end. Whether I succeed or not I am not interested but definitely try .
为了自由以及从肉体中解放出来，我们要知道我们会永远活着。
这是我们生活的目的，这就是我的想法，所以我会为此而努力，直到成功为止，不管我最后是否成功，我都不感兴趣，但我一定要努力尝试一次。
I believe we are living for the acceptance of others so that we can accept ourselves. Look at all the action through out our life we study so hard so that we can get good jobs so that we can earn more so that we can afford that fancy house so that we can impress other and from that we feel good such a vicious circle. I believe it's a irony of life we need to life for ourselves but tends to live for others
我相信我们活着是为了接受别人，这样我们才能更好的接受自己。看看我们一生中所经历的一切：我们努力学习，这样我们就能得到好工作，这样我们就能赚更多的钱，这样我们才能买得起豪华的房子，这样我们就能给别人留下好印象，但是这样就形成了一个恶性循环。我认为这是对生活的讽刺，因为我们需要为自己而活，而我们却往往是在为别人而活。
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